Archive for September, 2010

Review of the Sucess: Redmummy

September 1st, 2010

It just happened that in this previous long weekend, I don’t have much to do and I hopped around the blogosphere – something that I’ve not done rigorously since last three years. Things have definitely changed and most of the blogs I used to read last three years are either deleted, not updated, or already soaring high with fame and popularity.

But truth been told, I never read RedMummy.com before even though I do know her blog’s existence due to media coverage that she’s got; and it’s for simple reason – her topic is feminine. Jadah hapenye aku nak baca blog pasal mekap2 henbeg2 sume kan. Nak baca pasal anak-anak or parenting tips, aku kahwin pun blom! tongue

Since I don’t have anything better to do, I read it today just to find out how she made it to success with personal blogs. It’s hard to be a successful personal blogger, obviously. It’s even harder than having blog dedicated to certain niches where you can have a focused topic to talk about. So, she and her blog have impressed me quite shockingly.

Reason that I’m so impressed with her are:

  1. She’s a married with two kids Malay woman.
  2. She still has a daily job in KLCC (I believe she’s a secretary)
  3. She involve her family totally in her blog making them her own dream team.

Elaboration: Reason #1

If there’s a title for super-mom, super-woman, super-wife (and apa-apa je lagi yang super), she’s earned it. I am not sure how she can manage her time superbly. Aku ni baru busy-busy kerja sikit dah memaki hamun stress macam siyal sume bugima barbiturat keluar dari mulut aku! And she used to write 8 posts per day while nurturing her two kids and keeping her daily job? Really, gotta salute that. not worthy

I am not gonna comment on the quality of her posts or whatnot because that wouldn’t be fair. Of course, you cannot compare her posts with Obefiend’s; that’s like comparing an apple with a lemon. After all, her blog is dedicated for her personal life. Obefiend’s is dedicated for politics, his cynical thoughts and smirks. How can those two be the same meh?

And being Malay who is also a Muslim, it’s not like she can write like KennySia where alcoholic ads or partying is part of the life. Her simple life of her family is somehow being made interesting with her creative posts. It’s not her daily mundane tasks or her office day-to-day operation that is being revealed there. Somehow, her simple hectic life is being turned into an art that attracted million readers to read it.

That’s just — creative beyond boundaries. She seems not to have a writer’s block.. (or at least that’s what I believed at this time of reading..)

Elaboration: Reason #2

There’s nothing much to elaborate actually. She has a day job as a secretary, yet she has talked so little of her job. Most people find that it’s easier to talk about their jobs and whatnot mundane tasks they are assigned to; after all, that’s where our times are mostly spend, aight? winking

By doing this, her confidentiality is kept private and I would think that her boss wouldn’t mind at all. There’s no business deals or operations being revealed that might compromised their legality. There’s no conflict of interests at all. She didn’t write her blogs in the office (like most of us do.. kohkohkoh tongue)

That, I believe, is what makes her a very professional and trustworthy person. I believe her PR skills and her people / social skills are top-rated.

While her dream of being a full-time blogger is yet to be achieved, I would think that it’s very possible. Good luck Kak Red! big grin

Elaboration: Reason #3:

Success is not a one man show. Often, it needs a team. Usually, family makes a bad team, especially in business. We’ve seen a whole lot of Malay drama showing how corporate entities can crumble when a family member turns rogue. Okay, I might be biased due to my own family differences here LOL.

Nevertheless, Kak Red involved her own family in his blogs. Me? Nak add Facebook mak aku pun dah takut weh! HAHAHA laughing

She’s lucky to have a very understanding hubby that supports her all the way into the blogging world. And it’s her very biggest advantage to have a very dedicated and hardworking IT Specialist to help her with all the technical stuffs as well. And I mean all the words I’ve said; most geeks or IT people are just plain lazy as far as I knew. I just need to look in the mirror for a prove.

Agak-agak kalau aku kawen nanti, Kinkin nak ke tak jadik famous blogger macam Kak Red ni? Heee~ hee hee

Conclusion:

With all the reasons given, it’s a no wonder that with hardwork, a good team, dedication and luck; success will just be in your grabs. She deserved the thousands of moolah derived from her blog. Not many people can do what she has been doing (and keep doing it). It makes me awe, and her determination has been very fruitful.

I might be so very late on congratulating her; after all, she’s been in the media and my non-worthy blog reviewing her is nothing compared to all those publicity. But what I’m sharing here is just a sincere astonishment on how an average people can be successful, once you found the magic systems.

Making money with blog is not about having a blog. It is about passion and hardwork. Kak Red, I salute you.. not worthy

P/s: Copy from one, it’s plagiarism. Copy from two, it’s research – Wilson Mizner

Article from Great Grand-daughter of Tunku Abdul Rahman

September 1st, 2010

I stumbled upon this article being posted in Facebook that allegedly says that it’s written by the great grand-daughter of Tunku Abdul Rahman. Not sure how genuine it is (remember, never trusts anything being posted in the Internet 100% – rule #1 of lurking in the Internet), but at least it is soothing and very good words that promotes unity. Something worth reading for the National Independence Day. happy

In b4: Pic being posted in the article. Cute. For original link, see here.

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By The Tunku’s Great Granddaughter:
Sharyn Lisa Shufiyan, 24, Conservationist

Both my parents are Malay. My mum’s heritage includes Chinese, Thai and Arab, while my dad is Minangkabau. Due to my skin colour, I am often mistaken for a Chinese. I’m happy that I don’t have the typical Malay look but I do get annoyed when people call me Ah Moi or ask me straight up “Are you Chinese or Malay?”.

Like, why does it matter? Before I used to answer “Malay” but now I’m trying to consciously answer Malaysian instead.

There’s this incident from primary school that I remember till today. Someone told me that I will be called last during Judgement Day because I don’t have a Muslim name. Of course, I was scared then but now that I’m older, I realise that a name is just a name. It doesn’t define you as a good or bad person and there is definitely no such thing as a Muslim name. You can be named Rashid or Ali and still be a Christian.

I’ve heard of the 1Malaysia concept, but I think we don’t need to be told to be united. We’ve come such a long way that it should already be embedded in our hearts and minds that we are united. Unfortunately, you can still see racial discrimination and polarisation. There is still this ethno-centric view that the Malays are the dominant group and their rights must be protected, and non Malays are forever the outsiders.

For the concept to succeed, I think the government should stop with the race politics. It’s tiring, really. We grew up with application forms asking us to tick our race. We should stop painting a negative image of the other races, stop thinking about ‘us’ and ‘them’ and focus on ‘we’, ‘our’ and ‘Malaysians’.

No one should be made uncomfortable in their own home. A dear Chinese friend of mine said to me once, “I don’t feel patriotic because I am not made to feel like Malaysians in my home, and I don’t feel an affinity to China because I have never lived there.”

I know some baba Nyonya friends who can trace their lineage back hundreds of years. I’m a fourth generation Malaysian. If I am Bumiputra, why can’t they be, too? Clearly I have issues with the term.

I think the main reason why we still can’t achieve total unity is because of this ‘Malay rights’ concept. I’d rather ‘Malay rights’ be replaced by human rights. So unless we get rid of this Bumiputra status, or reform our views and policies on rights, we will never achieve unity.

For my merdeka wish, I’d like for Malaysians to have more voice, to be respected and heard. I wish that the government would uphold the true essence of parliamentary democracy. I wish for the people to no longer fear and discriminate against each other, to see that we are one and the same.

I wish that Malaysia would truly live up to the tourism spin of Malaysia truly Asia . Malaysians to lead – whatever their ethnic background. Only ONE NATIONALITY MALAYSIAN. No Malays, No Chinese, No Indians – ONLY MALAYSIANS.. Choose whatever religion one is comfortable with.

MERDEKA!
MERDEKA!
MERDEKA!

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P/s: Ah terlambat 10 minit nak post – dah terlepas 31st August. Nevermind. Shoot any comments if you have.