And if I may proudly announces, that I am back to single status. Chunna, Mia, and people who thought that they can taste “nasi minyak” from me, sorry to let you down.
Don’t ask me why, even myself are not very sure what happened. It happened to be too fast, and too furious. Emotional versus emotional, anger versus anger, principal versus principal. In the end, the aftermath was quite bad. Okay I won’t share any details more than that.
I can only share some learning points from both sides:
1) Never hide your feelings. If you happened to be “memendam rasa”, better let it out in a well mannered situation. Don’t put it inside, don’t be a denial. And don’t go home and cry over the spilled milk.
2) Commitment mean sacrifice. If you cannot sacrifice some of your good time with friends whatsoever, never commit a commitment.
3) Everybody has their own bad side. Live with it.
4) Mistakes are something unavoidable. Learn from it.
5) Admittance and Acceptance. If you know that the jewel in front of you means a lot, then take the initiative to clean it up. Accept the value of the jewels; only clean it up, not trimmed it up, because it may break and shattered.
6) Give and Take, Friends and Lovers: definition.
FAQ
1) Is there a war or you’ve broken up with peace?
I’m sorry to say, yes there’s been a war. But I got to let it go with a peace treaty, because continuing the war only brings more casualties and no win to anybody. Sorry to say, I am a fighter and will fight even a meaningless war.
2) Who is actually to be blame?
I’m gonna admit that I’m the one who throw the bomb to start the war. Nevertheless, the war is there waiting to explode, and yes, both of us have our own part to be blame.
3) So what you’re going to do now?
I’m going to live my life as usual. Life need to go on, and hanging by the past memories isn’t good for me. I’m open for anyone to date now, anyone?
4) Does it hurt even to the Doctor Love?
Yes it hurts. I’ve taken many injuries and damages and just being warded off from the ICU of the Love Hospital. I’m also a human maa..
5) Do you love her actually?
Yes I do love her. I’m regretting the fact that there’s nothing more that I could done to save our relationship. I’ve tried my best, but it seems that it is not good enough. Well, there’s a saying that to love is to let go… you know the rest..
6) If the time decides that she comes back to you, will you accept her back?
I hate to play with uncertainty, and the same with time. As said above, I do love her, and I accept her for what she are, and who she are. But if the times destined and forced me to wait for her, no, I’ve giving up on that. If she comes back to me later, I will decide with my availability, my commitment, and my conditions to be able to marry her at that point of time. If I can, I’m more than willing to accept her back. If somehow I’m not available (say, I got someone else), or cannot give commitment (say, I’m too busy with my career), or my conditions are just too bad (say, I don’t have the money to marry her), then, I’m sorry I cannot accept her back.
That’s it people for this time.
To Miss Fazlina, I wish you good luck in your life. I am sorry for what I’ve done, intentionally or unintentionally. You know how much I love you, but it seems that we’ve taken wrong steps towards our relationships. I hope you don’t grief over the past time, and I hope you’ve learned your mistakes just as much as I did, and make it our own guidelines in our life to be more mature and be more wise. I also hope that both of us doesn’t have any revenges, or anymore anger left unsettled.
I wish you all the best things to happen to both of us. Thanks for the memories.
T_T
this is a big news, instead.
however, adek, knowing you, i know you can cope with this.
at least try to, ok. they say we met the wrong person before the right one.
i guess this is just another lesson for you. you noe, for you both to be better.
you r gonna chill, kn?
ps: im craving for ur nasi minyak, yes. but this tummy can wait. haha!
heh. not too big i guess.
mia, thx for the trust and believe that i can cope with it
lets see how i do later 
yeah i’m trying to. a hard lesson, if i may add.
i’m still chilling! don’t worry bout that
haha! ur tummy can wait aa? nais one la~!
p/s: wait for another big news. i’m planning to buy a house! yeay!
“life is a lesson, you learn it when you through”
Deym, dah rancang beli rumah. aku baru nak stat keje Y_Y
hehe.. rancang baru.. lek2..
true what u say..
and it was a hard time to get through. luckily i survived
another break up? man, you should stay single until 30 then you should think about marriage.
yeah, i know how much we hope to live together with loved one and making love all day long, knowing that happiness could come early and will stay forever. but that’s just an illusion of happiness.
i truely believe people could be happy with just themselves. well, it might not be the most happiest with your loved one but as a human, it’s give enough “high” for you to stay alive and sane. i’m enjoy myself socializing with my collection of doramas, movies and casual chit chat with old friends. i feel my life filled with everything i need. what a nerdy way of life but it’s work for lonely lad like me.
and for every friends of mine who become single:
“Welcome to the Single Club”
Can i date you? You’re an intelligently sexy person and i couldn’t resist such person. not to mention, you’re cute and sassy. me likey. hahaha.
cheer up k. live ain’t over. stay single, enjoy life. see new people, read new books, play new game, watch new dorama/movie/series, listen to new genre of music, and do something you can’t imagined capable of doing. say like…i dunno, you figure it out.
for every ending, it’s a beginning of something.
p/s: i see you get through lonely single life before, i knew this won’t be such a hurdle for you to get through. aight?
hahahaha. u likey me? me likey too! come date meh~
(uhh.. gotta get used to the ghey again!! 
)
thx a lot for that very… long howto. and yes, it makes me smile
do something i can’t imagined capable of doing? hehe. how bout buying a house? hmm…
thx for the welcoming too. and don’t worry, i’m still kicking. it still a hurdle to get over, but yeah, i get over it
‘for every ending, it’s a beginning of something.’
sweett
.oh toin,just for the fun of asking,ko ade :’( tak?hihi.soklan mtk penampar.(i just want to know la.u guys cry over break up or not ;p)
well,u are one vry nice guy ok.intelligent,berkerjaya somemore.this is just a small hiccup.ala i noe ur doing great what~He got plan for us.hv fun menyingle! ;p
demmit uda. ko mmg sajer je ek? malu i u~~
jawapan for that question: yer ada.
hehe. thx for the so encouraging comment.
“i know how much we hope to live together with loved one and making love all day long, knowing that happiness could come early and will stay forever. but that’s just an illusion of happiness.”
Oooih!!! Larat ke???
(Post ini bertujuan untuk mengundang unsur-unsur pervy dalam blog ini)
kalau bulan pose mungkin tak larat kot enol.. tp kalau bukan bulan pose… hmmm….
tunggu aku order viagra lah!
making love = making love OR
making “love”
depends how you perceive it. hahaha.
ihiks. muahs2. *flirt* *flirt* . hey cutey.
(yes…adek menjadi ghey kembali.)
“Setiap Benda ada hikmah dia”
adeh adeq clash berita terbesar utk bulan ini.
/me simpati… but life goes on
/me oso been rejected this week
“ah biar je la malas nak pikir”
quote dari aku awal2 dulu. so ala ramai je kot kat malaysia nie. kalo tak kan leh kawen 2 3
welcome to single club
and perhaps ghey club?
ho ho ho
adeq…..
jom maple agik..meh la utp…
(ape aku nak ckp nie)
lolz..aku tunggu je bile nak maple dgn ko smpi 5 pagik..
dtg kabo ye… =p
meh aku bnje ko!! lolz
-meera-
so this is how a dr love get through his very own love prob. kewl~
aku tapat encourage ko lagi with things u were best at. good love manual u gave there, though. yet aku taley apply, haha~
nmpaknye ko ade more free times la skang~ jum mapley lagi~ eh da ghey ke skang.. +_+”
(haha ngarut tiru org atas aku)
bes je single adek, tgk aku sehat je, x ghey pun, tayah2 masuk ghey club dorg~
single club sudey
tp kdg2 aku de prob nk turun makan sbb org len kuar deting makan same2, haha~
btw,munir, kne riJECT? antare pompuan2 yg ko transformed into bile malam menjelma tu ke?
(isk, bebelit plak,yg ko salu tuka nick bile waktu malam tu ke?)
:ninja2: < – saje nk suh ex-admin ngan admin-on-leave rindu2 k5
Omg apsal tetibe mcm ramai lak yg baca. adakah kisah aku dah masuk K5? hahahaha!
muner bear: thx for da simpati. life goes on.
per cer ko kene rijek? jadik jack ke 2? lol!
don’t want la ghey club
meera: haha ok! no prob. nnt kalau turun aku gtau. kalau tak ko ler turun2 sini
eena: lol. it ONLY looks kewl when the war is over. u don’t want to know that
haha taley apply ke? adekah kes ko berlainan? meh2 citer, dr love da msk keje blk da neh
hehe..more free times and single means freedom. i’m starting to love it!
:ninja2: haha
hahaha abes aa ko cite ko masuk k5
lolz
erk, tak jadi jek kot. not that bad.
ceh..mane la ramai x baca.. da ko paste link kt status ym. aku da berkurun x singgah pun tersinggah da =p
adek ..ko x reply msg aku kt fs.. =c
haha. yg anehnya sume dak2 K5 lak tuh! dak2 yg takde ym pn
errr jamie.. i dont get any msg from u at fs?
nak spam kat sini. jamie tak lambai pon kat aku pagi tadi time nampak aku masa nak naek lif
aku tgk kat ko nye gtalk la~
kite ne ade YM haha
not applicable sbb aku single je~
excited plak dr. love nih, haha..
no weri, aku tade crush kat sape2 lg so far =p
anyway, ko nk suh ktorg paste k5 ke kat mane2 topic lam love revo tu?
:whistling:
adeq,
whatever reasons you guys have, or whatever quarrels you guys have been thru, you guys sure did it maturedly – like duh la kan, kate dr love!
it wasn’t easy. but i noe you’ll get thru
for every ending, it’s a beginning of something
it’s so true
enol: mungkin jamie tak mengenali kau lagi, selepas ko telah menjadi penanam anggur yg berjaya selama beberapa bulan?
eena: haha. ikot korg la nk post ke ape. kalau post letak credit or acknowledgement. ehehe
chunna: adakah ko tau lambat? haha. erm.. there’s nothing matured about fights actually. but i guess its fun and can teach you a lot
hehe. yep it wasn’t easy, but i get thru it
. Thanks for visiting! 
hahahahha..
ok2.. ckp la kot? gila aa aku clash jer byk tros komen? omg2!
er..somehow..u have a new reader today
tak tau nape tetiba dy tergerak hati nk click kt blogspot adeq hari ni..n tak sangka lak tup2 baca, dpt berita cmni..
anyway..hope u’ll be ok..
*im stil single =P
have a nice day k~
err. hehe. thanx for dropping by!
ermm.. i’m ok. don’t worry. have a nice day to u too!
u’r single? am i missing so much that i dunno who’s single and who’s not? omg!
adek… i think u can cope with break ups better than me..
it has been more than 6 months for me but i am still bitching bout it
btw, as one of your friends commented above, for every ending, it is the beginning for a new beginning…
welcome to the single club
hehe tq kak su oi!
well.. i just aint bitching it here
hmm..maybe luarannya seems like dat, but.. yeah.. pedih gk woo!
your treat to me earlier has been wasted…LoL..but nahh…just get over it…
haha demm.. yeah its wasted. demmit!
Ahah..thanks for stopping by..i link u eh? Cuz br join this blogspot world=p
Btw, I don’t know if your post supposed to be a happy or sad one…but i just wanna say it’s a rare but honest writing..keep that spirit up! Tuhan nak kite jumpe the wrong ones to learn from our mistakes..So, enjoy ur single life(single life Roxx…at least to Me=p)and good luck to u!=)
hehe sure.. sile2 link. no prob at all.
ermm.. this post supposed to be.. mix feeling kot? happy and sad at the same time? hahahaha.
good luck to u too
ehh kalau single leh aa i amek jd gf *wink2*
mak aih…terus nak carik awek lain?
muahahahah! stended!
adek, best hape single… cm haku..single je memanjang.. ngahhahaha.. but unavailable… btw, meh2 pindahkan ibm ko sebelah klcc nih… leh buke pose same2 slalu…
oi ape modus operandi pakai shotkat hahahahahaha!
adek, biar benar dow. comment tuk post neh, leh lwn cite nana snub! hahaha
hahahahahhah!! ckp2!
nih namanya kene wat post baru nih. kalau tak.. hoho.
mia.. new records huh? lol!
zhu: u r not officially single. lol. tamoh haa pindah ibm sblh klcc. nnt mau makan pn mahal. pindah ibm n klcc sblh umah aku aa camnih!
bertambah lagi club singles nampaknye.. ;P
ah,
My deeply sorry for you, old friend. Pardon me for not being a good news catcher, as i am always be. Some things some times they are a bit too complicated, shall we say?
the same thing we share between me and you is that we both dont play with uncertainties, for uncertainties bring you hope, might one day become the false ones.
That’s why i choose to make things certain. If it’s a catch, then make it one. Remember you told me a catch is never a catch until you catch it?
And yeah, dont get too much deserted with the doctor thingy. Get out, have fun and go for a vacation now, and start over on your folio when you are ready. Well we both play this field long enough to understand what pain is, dont we? What differs is that we dont get too much intimidated like anybody else, much like other doctors too; they get immune to everyday diseases they cant fall sick anymore.
But i believe every man needs a break. That explains you.
It is always an open season out there. As long as you are locked and loaded, you can get whatever hunt you want. But of course it depends on your accuracy and skills, which i find out you dont have any problems on that for that you have already been certified as a good lover, so to say.
Other than that, it is luck. You will never know what luck promises you.
And yes, before i forgot, my gratitudes to you for being understanding. Owh you know what i mean.
Catcha later. Got another patient waiting for paid consultancy
Till then, old partner. You take care. Sorry for the blabber anyway.