pro.mis.cu.ous (pr-msky-s)
adj.1. Having casual sexual relations frequently with different partners; indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners.
2. Lacking standards of selection; indiscriminate.
3. Casual; random.
4. Consisting of diverse, unrelated parts or individuals; confused: “Throngs promiscuous strew the level green” (Alexander Pope).
Nice and related!!. And I think I’m a promiscuous boy, with promiscuous people around me. Well my phobia to have a commitment give ways to the lifestyle I had for now. Casual relationship with anybody. But not really..sexual. hehe. (anybody dare enough to give me the trial to have real promiscous girl? 
)
Not everybody get the idea of being promiscuous, and not everybody agree with this matter. But hey, its fun! At least, you can have fun without any commitment, or any “lovely-but-sissy” emotions. No sweat, not complicated, no fights, nothing. No victim, nobody’s hurt.
Well I’m sick with some people who can’t get over something; which happened around me lately. Its promiscuous stories ladies and gentlemen. Lemme tell some stories, but I won’t be revealing the name. If the real person(s) happened to read about this, take the lessons and move on!!
(This writing doesn’t mean to offend anybody. Just a blurt out from my mind and heart. Sorry if it do offend anybody, in any way)
Quoting from Enoll : Life isn’t ALL about LOVE.
Case 1 :
The boy, Mr C, just break up with her girl, Miss D. Real reason that I saw; Miss D can’t stand the long distance relationship, and somehow, there’s another person, Mr X, that can give the attentions she need (duhh.. girls. Easily hook up). So D got together with X, and C, somehow, pissed off. They have this cold war like, forever and eternally neverending battle.
Both C and D is my friends, so what I’ve done is trying to get both of them to be in good terms. My advise to C, go for promiscuous type of relationship. Losing one love is nothing; the best part is to learn from it. But yeah, some men got some egoistic emotion. So I withdraw; and let it be.
Miss D? haha. She already got herself Mr X, so what’s my rights to stop them? Also.. let it be.
(Am I a bad friend? Whatever..)
Case 2 :
The boy, Mr W, has this girl, Miss L, and just broke up with the previous girl, Miss Y. However, he is in a good term with somebody else, Miss U. However, Miss Y got really pissed off when she discover about this. So she tell Miss U off. Miss U, apart from the good term, got fall for Mr W. So she got a heart break about this. lol!
Again all these people was around me. I maybe didn’t get the drift or the story straight enough, but I do feel pity for Miss U. However, what I thought was; “Its a fault to involve feeling into something promiscuous”. So, all the people involved make a mistake.
Case 3 :
Haha okay this case happened to me. I had some promiscuous relationship with somebody, lets called it Miss H. When I play this game, I don’t put any feeling/emotion. Its just a casual relationship. However, Miss H decided to see someone else, and got an intention to go for him. So she asked something like this to me:
H : Hey lets say if I’m seeing someone, how would it be.. I mean.. our relationship?
Me : Hahaha.. I don’t mind, we will still be the same.
H : So the casual thingy? End like that huh?
Me : I’ve said that we don’t need to put any commitment before, right?
H : So you want to continue or not?
Me : Basically you and me are friends. If you want to continue the “promiscuous” thingy, I don’t mind at all. Just be sure that I won’t get trashed with your “someone”.
H : Hehe..ok..
See? How easy it is when you don’t involve any feeling. Got to still be friends, and yet got to have some fun too. And it does NOT compromised your health at all. lol!
Have fun readers. Be promiscuous. =)
sokong adek…mmg mudah if kite still fren-fren relationship..xde offense or hurt feeling…
but once da komited, ade siyes relationship,mule ar.itu slh,ini xkena,sini xbetul,sane xsesuai..ade2 jer..
better remain kwn..idup muda lg ar..hahaha..sengal nyer aku..
haha~
nak kasi komen gak..betul apa yg adik katakan tuh..baik jadi kawan jer dari mempunyai perasaan yg siyes..sbb nanti byk laks masalah yg datang..(asal bunyi org bertukang dlm opis aku nih?)
masalah pasal benda nih aku baru jer dpt..haha~ apa2 pun, hidup mesti hepi..
yeah!! hidup masih muda..(tup2, esok dah takda..haha~)
zhu: mekasih psl sokong aku.hoho!! i’m expecting a negative comment. psl tak ramai yg suke utk promiscuous. or in other word..jadik abg G. muahahah!!
gajah: mekasih jua. aku curious dgn “masalah psl benda nih aku br je dapat?”.. hurm..care to share?
yeah idop mmg muda.. takpe..mati muda pn bgs gk..tak byk dosa lg..huhuh
Easier said than done.
Let me put a situation.
Mr R was deeply in love with Miss Q… however Miss Q was somehow attach or sort of starting to have a relationship with Mr S. So I put it here as a healthy strive of Mr R and Mr S to get Miss S’s (it sounds like asses) heart. 2 guys in love with one girl.
To make the story short, Mr S got Miss Q’s heart. Mr R tried to make good deeds of friendship with Mr S (they were friends before.. but yeah… when this thingy happen u have to admit it won’t be the same as before). At the starting point, Miss Q was worried that he lost his friendship with Mr R.
The fact.
Mr R never spoke a word to Miss Q after this things happen.
Care to advise this situation?
(Cerita ini tidak ada kena-mengena dengan yang mati, watak-watak yang diwujudkan adalah khayalan penulis semata-mata)
hahaha..mcm familiar kisah ini…mcm penah ku dengar..tp di mana ya???
well enol..that’s what happened when u put the feelings. “its a fault to involve feeling into something promiscuous”.
Mr R lost the game because as they (Q&R) started their promiscuous relationship, Mr R suddenly feel like falling for Q. And when Mr R pursue that feeling, he got it too much over..or can we say over excited?? That’s what happened when a feeling called hope is too much being put into promiscuous relationship.
Advice? First; don’t get any feeling involved. Whether its hope, love, or whatever. A promiscuous friend, stay promiscuous.
Second; When things has happened, it cannot be changed. So the fact that Mr S got Q’s heart is inevitable. Mr R need to go on and get over it; life’s waiting with so much more to offer.
Even though Mr R never spoke a word to Miss Q, I believed that every human got a soft spot called “pity”. Maybe Mr R feel embarassed; maybe Mr R feel like he is a burden to Miss Q and S, or “penghalang kepada sesuatu perhubungan”. Maybe its good for Mr R to never spoke a word again, but hey, that doesn’t mean that friendship ends. I believe deep in Mr R’s heart, if he wants to speak or be a friend again with Miss Q, it won’t be a problem.
Third – speak a word is not the only way to communicate. In this advanced technology era, it can be as simple as a SMS, or as complicated as 3G video conference streaming. Mr R, apart from speaking to Miss Q, which he believe can create chaos (if he is to speak with her), can just send SMS to exchange a couple of hellos.
Enough advise enoll?
nice advice.. one drawback
U’ll never find the love of your heart if you remain promiscous… when the time comes, promiscous thingy thing should be forfeited
p/s: u really noe Mr R’s heart eih?
that’s right. that’s one drawback. but as long as u r not ready for love=commitment.. for me..its good to be promiscuous for now.. (not ready yet for commitment)
p/s: well..i can read Mr R’s heart.
(eheh..i can guess enoll..nice story btw)
Just realized an error in the story above:
“So I put it here as a healthy strive of Mr R and Mr S to get Miss S’s (it sounds like asses) heart. “
should have been:
“So I put it here as a healthy strive of Mr R and Mr S to get Miss Q’s (it sounds like asses) heart.”
Life isn’t just about love.
owh..hihu..i thought thats a mock..coz..u know..in the end the Mr S got Miss Q…so Miss Q becomes Miss S..ades..
nvm the typo error